Conversation & Flirting

Conversation & Flirting

Conversation skills for creating connection while remaining curious, respectful and socially calibrated.

Good flirting is calibrated communication: you reveal interest, notice the response and leave the other person room to move closer or step back.

Guides in this section

How to Talk to Women

Stop searching for perfect lines and build better conversations through curiosity, specificity and responsiveness.

How to Flirt Without Being Creepy

Flirt in a way that leaves room for the other person to reciprocate, redirect or decline.

What to Talk About With a Girl

Conversation topics and question styles that move beyond interviews, small talk and rehearsed scripts.

How to Compliment a Woman

Give compliments that are specific, proportionate and free of hidden demands for attention.